In my previous article, (Are You Too Old To Succeed? Why you Should Never Give Up on Your Dreams) I narrated how sometimes I usually feel as if am I getting late with achieving my dreams. After conducting some research, I established am not the only one, most of us usually feel that way. We have been conditioned to believe only those people who portray certain characteristic at an early age, are going to be overachievers.
Particularly, our education system makes us believe school performance is directly linked to life accomplishments. Students who score low grade or are unmotivated to participate in school curriculum and extracurricular activities are considered to be failures. As result, other talents that might lead to early success are not exploited. Exactly that is the case with late bloomers (late achievers). Most of them do not discover and hence exploit their talents as early as convectional wisdom would expect them to do.
While usually it is expected that by the time we reach 30 we should have discovered our talents and hence developed them to the peak, there some people who did not begun exploiting theirs until they were either in their thirties or passed that. A good example is Vivienne Westwood. Currently at her 70’s she is still a respected fashion icon. Unlike most achievers, she began pursuing her passion full time at age 30.
The next time your stuck in a task to point whereby you begin to wonder whether age has taken its toll; causing loss of creativity, be comforted by the fact that research has proven there is no connection between age and creativity. Creativity can hit its peak at any age.
One reason why some people achieve their dreams early in their life is because they follow them relentlessly. Late bloomers however usually fail to do this. They often rationalize their dreams, finding reasons why they impractical, and thus abandoning them to get “a real job”.Vivienne Westwood did not pursue her passion early because she believed she could not make a living out of it.
You might be wondering, how can I be successful and I don’t know what my passion really is? If you read through various success stories, you will find out that the difference between achieves and failures is passion. Successful people are usually passionate about what they do.
Some late bloomers begin without knowing their definite passion and therefore might appear as failures. However, with a burning desire to achieve greatness, they are likely to try different tactics until they find themselves.
If opportunities are limited and you feel like you cannot risk trying other things apart from your job, consider giving more than 100% to what you are currently involved in. I mean some people are late bloomers simply because it took them years to perfect their skills.
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- Colonel Sanders after trying severally unsuccessful to promote his secret chicken recipe finally founded KFC at 60.
- Suze Orman was yet to join the financial industry at age 29. She was still a waitress.
- Paul Cezanne did not have his first one man show until the age of 56.
- Alfred Hitchock waited until 50 to have his first famous film.
- Ray Krock after years of struggling with poor health and false starts finally founded McDonald at 52.
Now imagine if these, plus a list of other successful late bloomers, had abandoned their dreams since they did enjoy early successes.